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(Gresik, Jawa Timur): Dua remaja ABG masuk ke dalam bilik warnet secara bersamaan. Penjaga warnet tidak curiga terhadap keduanya. Selang beberapa lama tiba-tiba terdengar suara mengerang, begitu dilihat oleh petugas warnet, ternyata sepasang remaja itu sedang berhubungan badan
Remaja pria bernama IbI (18) warga Desa Pongangan, Kecamatan Manyar Gresik dan remaja wanita bernama Mar (15) warga Jalan Banjarmasin Perum Gresik Kota Baru (GKB). Mereka kepergok berhubungan seks warnet Jazz Net yang berlokasi di Jalan Arief Rahman Hakim.
Menurut Didik penjaga warnet Jazz Net, semula dirinya tidak menaruh curiga terhadap dua pasang pelajar yang masuk bersamaan. Namun, setelah beberapa jam melakukan 'browsing' di dunia maya tiba-tiba terdengar suara desahan seperti orang berhubungn intim. Tanpa berpikir banyak, akhirnya kedua pelajar tersebut disita identitasnya dan dilaporkan ke Polres Gresik.
Perisitiwa tersebut juga menyebabkan ibu kandung Marisa yang bernama Ersia Yuswanti Fanani tidak terima dengan perlakuan Ibnu Rusdil Ibad teman dekat anaknya. Bahkan, atas kejadian ini dirinya malah melaporkan ke Unit Pelayanan Perempuan dan Anak (PPA) Polres Gresik atas perbuatan tidak senonoh yang dilakukan Ibnu. "Saya tidak terima anak saya diperlakukan oleh Ibnu," katanya, Kamis (23/06/2011) seperti disiarkan beritajatim.
Kasubag Humas Polres Gresik Aiptu Saudji membenarkan pihaknya telah menerima laporan dari ibu kandung Marisa terkait perbuatan asusila.
"Jika nanti dalam pemeriksaan memang benar ada perbuatan asusila maka tersangka bisa dijerat pasal 81 ayat 2 atau bisa juga pasal 82 UU nomor 23 tahun 2002 tentang perlindungan anak," pungkasnya.
Remaja pria bernama IbI (18) warga Desa Pongangan, Kecamatan Manyar Gresik dan remaja wanita bernama Mar (15) warga Jalan Banjarmasin Perum Gresik Kota Baru (GKB). Mereka kepergok berhubungan seks warnet Jazz Net yang berlokasi di Jalan Arief Rahman Hakim.
Menurut Didik penjaga warnet Jazz Net, semula dirinya tidak menaruh curiga terhadap dua pasang pelajar yang masuk bersamaan. Namun, setelah beberapa jam melakukan 'browsing' di dunia maya tiba-tiba terdengar suara desahan seperti orang berhubungn intim. Tanpa berpikir banyak, akhirnya kedua pelajar tersebut disita identitasnya dan dilaporkan ke Polres Gresik.
Perisitiwa tersebut juga menyebabkan ibu kandung Marisa yang bernama Ersia Yuswanti Fanani tidak terima dengan perlakuan Ibnu Rusdil Ibad teman dekat anaknya. Bahkan, atas kejadian ini dirinya malah melaporkan ke Unit Pelayanan Perempuan dan Anak (PPA) Polres Gresik atas perbuatan tidak senonoh yang dilakukan Ibnu. "Saya tidak terima anak saya diperlakukan oleh Ibnu," katanya, Kamis (23/06/2011) seperti disiarkan beritajatim.
Kasubag Humas Polres Gresik Aiptu Saudji membenarkan pihaknya telah menerima laporan dari ibu kandung Marisa terkait perbuatan asusila.
"Jika nanti dalam pemeriksaan memang benar ada perbuatan asusila maka tersangka bisa dijerat pasal 81 ayat 2 atau bisa juga pasal 82 UU nomor 23 tahun 2002 tentang perlindungan anak," pungkasnya.
Gone are the days when people could have multiple partners without the use of a condom, and other safe sex practices.
Safe sex is all about keeping yourself, and your partner, protected from the complications of unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted disease.
Although the concept of safe sex seems easy enough to understand, more and more people -- young people in particular -- seem to be missing the point, or missing the concept of how to accomplish safe sex. And just how safe and reliable is that condom when it comes right down to it? A condom can't promise 100% protection from AIDS or from pregnancy.
For males in particular, another problem with practicing safe sex is remembering to take the time to ...
(a) have a condom ready
(b) know how to use it properly, and
(c) take the time to put it on.
It's important to educate young people today in the proper use of condoms so that they understand when and how to use them. There's no point to having a condom ready if neither partner is going to take time to enforce its use. In a very practical sense, however, although a condom is typically worn by the male partner during heterosexual intercourse (and typically by both partners in a homosexual one), the responsibility for proper condom-IQ is borne by both partners.
Fortunately, there are more and more products appearing on the market to help people to plan for safe sex and to practice this method of responsible intercourse. Since both the birth control pill and the condom aren't 100% effective, combining the use of both of them together will increase your chances of staying safe
It's also vital to be aware of a partner's sexual history, and to seek "medical clearance" before engaging in a new relationship. This is especially important for those in polygamous relationships (more than one sexual partner at a time), because a "chain" of unsafe sex can start with any partner and spread rapidly through a previously healthy group.
The only way that there are going to be less unwanted pregnancies, and less transmission of STD's is if all sexually active people – both young and old -- are educated in the concepts of safe sex and what it means to them. In particular, in parts of the country where access to information is more challenging (such as some underprivileged areas), it's vital that communities step forward and provide this education.
Young men, in particular, need to understand the implications and risks of unprotected sex and what it can mean to their lives when they have an unwanted pregnancy or find out that they have a STD. Safe sex starts with education and knowledge, neither of which any young teen can do without
Safe sex is all about keeping yourself, and your partner, protected from the complications of unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted disease.
Although the concept of safe sex seems easy enough to understand, more and more people -- young people in particular -- seem to be missing the point, or missing the concept of how to accomplish safe sex. And just how safe and reliable is that condom when it comes right down to it? A condom can't promise 100% protection from AIDS or from pregnancy.
For males in particular, another problem with practicing safe sex is remembering to take the time to ...
(a) have a condom ready
(b) know how to use it properly, and
(c) take the time to put it on.
It's important to educate young people today in the proper use of condoms so that they understand when and how to use them. There's no point to having a condom ready if neither partner is going to take time to enforce its use. In a very practical sense, however, although a condom is typically worn by the male partner during heterosexual intercourse (and typically by both partners in a homosexual one), the responsibility for proper condom-IQ is borne by both partners.
Fortunately, there are more and more products appearing on the market to help people to plan for safe sex and to practice this method of responsible intercourse. Since both the birth control pill and the condom aren't 100% effective, combining the use of both of them together will increase your chances of staying safe
It's also vital to be aware of a partner's sexual history, and to seek "medical clearance" before engaging in a new relationship. This is especially important for those in polygamous relationships (more than one sexual partner at a time), because a "chain" of unsafe sex can start with any partner and spread rapidly through a previously healthy group.
The only way that there are going to be less unwanted pregnancies, and less transmission of STD's is if all sexually active people – both young and old -- are educated in the concepts of safe sex and what it means to them. In particular, in parts of the country where access to information is more challenging (such as some underprivileged areas), it's vital that communities step forward and provide this education.
Young men, in particular, need to understand the implications and risks of unprotected sex and what it can mean to their lives when they have an unwanted pregnancy or find out that they have a STD. Safe sex starts with education and knowledge, neither of which any young teen can do without
The most common problem for couples looking for better sex is that they don't look outside of their comfort zone. More sex is not better; better
sex is better; for the tangoe-ing twosome and humankind as a whole. Better sex is the essence of better health. In many cases, people seem to think
the way to achieve better sex is simply to have less bad sex.
Women notice if a man is confident in his abilities, and will want to get to know him better. Women are very adept at reading a man, and this is one
area that they will want to be sure of before approaching the man. Women report that they prefer longer sexual sessions that include massaging,
masturbation and oral sex stimulation, as well as penetration. Women and Men spend millions of amount on drugs and medicines annually for increased
Sex Power & Sex Time.
Sexual Ability All women expect a man to know how to please them. Sexual satisfaction has always been important to us, and it should be something
we keep achieving throughout our lives. All the same, for those who feel sexually bored or inadequate and are far from confident that they know all
there is to know, the better sex guides are not to be sneered at. Its a great way to develop a more subtle and varied sexual repertoire and to discover new dimensions of erotic pleasure. It offers a very practical and scientific approach to improving the reader's sexual health.
Expand your sexual repertoire and discover how toys can stimulate your senses, excite your desires and fulfill your fantasies. It's not just the immense cultural pressure to be good at sex, and the fact that society has become very sexualised, it's that sex doesn't always come naturally. Similarly women can become more sexually responsive, more orgasmic, increase their potential to experience G spot orgasm and maintain urogenital health as they get older.
The benefits of engaging in regular sexual intercourse include weight loss, stress reduction, improved circulation and increased longevity. Exercise
done properly enhances sexual functioning because it can naturally increase testosterone levels in both males and females.The message is that we all
need to wake up about our sexual health, start managing it more effectively, and encourage our friends to do the same – regardless of our sexuality.
Online sex guides are a good choice because they have videos and pictures and can be accessed from anywhere. We believe Lovecentria is the best
online sex tutor available, click here to become a member in minutes. Enjoy more sex and better sex with our #1 sex guide Lovecentria is a new online
sex guide which will turn you in to a much envied sexual expert.
Each technique that men and women need to know to become true experts in bringing sexual joy to their partners is set forth in explicit detail, and some are graphically and artistically illustrated by the author.
sex is better; for the tangoe-ing twosome and humankind as a whole. Better sex is the essence of better health. In many cases, people seem to think
the way to achieve better sex is simply to have less bad sex.
Women notice if a man is confident in his abilities, and will want to get to know him better. Women are very adept at reading a man, and this is one
area that they will want to be sure of before approaching the man. Women report that they prefer longer sexual sessions that include massaging,
masturbation and oral sex stimulation, as well as penetration. Women and Men spend millions of amount on drugs and medicines annually for increased
Sex Power & Sex Time.
Sexual Ability All women expect a man to know how to please them. Sexual satisfaction has always been important to us, and it should be something
we keep achieving throughout our lives. All the same, for those who feel sexually bored or inadequate and are far from confident that they know all
there is to know, the better sex guides are not to be sneered at. Its a great way to develop a more subtle and varied sexual repertoire and to discover new dimensions of erotic pleasure. It offers a very practical and scientific approach to improving the reader's sexual health.
Expand your sexual repertoire and discover how toys can stimulate your senses, excite your desires and fulfill your fantasies. It's not just the immense cultural pressure to be good at sex, and the fact that society has become very sexualised, it's that sex doesn't always come naturally. Similarly women can become more sexually responsive, more orgasmic, increase their potential to experience G spot orgasm and maintain urogenital health as they get older.
The benefits of engaging in regular sexual intercourse include weight loss, stress reduction, improved circulation and increased longevity. Exercise
done properly enhances sexual functioning because it can naturally increase testosterone levels in both males and females.The message is that we all
need to wake up about our sexual health, start managing it more effectively, and encourage our friends to do the same – regardless of our sexuality.
Online sex guides are a good choice because they have videos and pictures and can be accessed from anywhere. We believe Lovecentria is the best
online sex tutor available, click here to become a member in minutes. Enjoy more sex and better sex with our #1 sex guide Lovecentria is a new online
sex guide which will turn you in to a much envied sexual expert.
Each technique that men and women need to know to become true experts in bringing sexual joy to their partners is set forth in explicit detail, and some are graphically and artistically illustrated by the author.
One kind of extramarital affair revolves around sexual addiction. The partner involved in the affair, plain and simple, has a difficult time saying "NO." He/she may want to, but feels compelled to say "yes."
People can't say no? Well, I believe we all have the capacity, at some level, to say no. However, not all have developed that capacity or reached that level to firmly say no and mean it.
Some are "stuck" and seem to lack the ability to consistently act on the "no." Please remember that all of us are "grabbed" by something and find it difficult to let go. Infidelity when connected to sexual addiction and its many forms, however, becomes a powerful focal point.
How to know if infidelity is attached to sexual addiction:
1. Sex takes on an inflated role or value. Sex, sexual conquest, sexual release becomes a powerful force. Acting on the sexual impulse is a frequent activity. Thinking about sex likewise consumes an inordinate amount of time. Multiple ways of acting out sexually (porn, strip clubs, multiple sex partners, etc.) are common.
2. This activity is bound by fear. The person lives with fear: the fear of getting caught, the fear of consequences, the fear of "being found out," the fear of being abnormal, the fear of being punished, and the fear of losing family, spouse, job and respect.
3. A promise/failure cycle ebbs and flows with the inability to say no. After an "acting out" episode the person usually experiences guilt/fear and promises to self or others, "I won't do it again." This will last...until the "urge" is acted upon again. The spouse may be aware or unaware (but sense that something is not "right") of the "roller coaster" and succession of broken promises.
4. Others are used or seen as objects for personal gratification. No true intimacy is developed.
5. Sexuality is often confused with other needs or connected to unresolved past pain or trauma. A child who experiences confusion around sexuality or sexual abuse of one form or another, may carry along that confusion and attempt to "work that through" in a marriage or extramarital affairs. (I worked with one woman who "used" a one-night fling with a significant person to "clear up" a particular issue.) She was free of that "urge" from that point on. No one ever knew. Could she have chosen a different way? Maybe.
6. Such a person lives in a distorted world. They come to see the world and relationship through the eyes of their "addiction." They have a great capacity to rationalize their behavior, deceive others and may lead a "dual" life.
Tip: If you suspect these characteristics fit you or someone you love, get some help before your world disintegrates further or falls apart. Life can be different. Life, sexuality, a truly intimate relationship IS different. You can get there. You are stuck, and need some true love, care and guidance to arrive at the next level.
If you are interested in learning about the 6 other forms of infidelity I outline in my book, "Break Free From the Affair," visit my website.
People can't say no? Well, I believe we all have the capacity, at some level, to say no. However, not all have developed that capacity or reached that level to firmly say no and mean it.
Some are "stuck" and seem to lack the ability to consistently act on the "no." Please remember that all of us are "grabbed" by something and find it difficult to let go. Infidelity when connected to sexual addiction and its many forms, however, becomes a powerful focal point.
How to know if infidelity is attached to sexual addiction:
1. Sex takes on an inflated role or value. Sex, sexual conquest, sexual release becomes a powerful force. Acting on the sexual impulse is a frequent activity. Thinking about sex likewise consumes an inordinate amount of time. Multiple ways of acting out sexually (porn, strip clubs, multiple sex partners, etc.) are common.
2. This activity is bound by fear. The person lives with fear: the fear of getting caught, the fear of consequences, the fear of "being found out," the fear of being abnormal, the fear of being punished, and the fear of losing family, spouse, job and respect.
3. A promise/failure cycle ebbs and flows with the inability to say no. After an "acting out" episode the person usually experiences guilt/fear and promises to self or others, "I won't do it again." This will last...until the "urge" is acted upon again. The spouse may be aware or unaware (but sense that something is not "right") of the "roller coaster" and succession of broken promises.
4. Others are used or seen as objects for personal gratification. No true intimacy is developed.
5. Sexuality is often confused with other needs or connected to unresolved past pain or trauma. A child who experiences confusion around sexuality or sexual abuse of one form or another, may carry along that confusion and attempt to "work that through" in a marriage or extramarital affairs. (I worked with one woman who "used" a one-night fling with a significant person to "clear up" a particular issue.) She was free of that "urge" from that point on. No one ever knew. Could she have chosen a different way? Maybe.
6. Such a person lives in a distorted world. They come to see the world and relationship through the eyes of their "addiction." They have a great capacity to rationalize their behavior, deceive others and may lead a "dual" life.
Tip: If you suspect these characteristics fit you or someone you love, get some help before your world disintegrates further or falls apart. Life can be different. Life, sexuality, a truly intimate relationship IS different. You can get there. You are stuck, and need some true love, care and guidance to arrive at the next level.
If you are interested in learning about the 6 other forms of infidelity I outline in my book, "Break Free From the Affair," visit my website.
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Would you rather date a white girl than a black chick? This questions may sound anti-racial but hey, I've seen enough not to ignore this question.
Fellas, can I all give you a question? During my university days I've seen black girls and guys kicked it and most of the time the girls end up to like the guy and all of a sudden he will just call it quits. Sad scene is these black guys easily hang on to white chicks. What's with white chicks that these guys go head-over-heels with? Why a black girl is easily passed over for a white gal?
Well because these guys think that black girls are just too strong-willed for them, not easy to handle. I can't remember where exactly I read these but it just left a mark on me and never had forgotten them.
If you want a queen, be with a black girl,
If you want a dumb ass who hangs on my every word, get a white girl,
If I want a challenge, go for an African girl
A chick to do what you say, when you say, then it's a white girl.
(With all due respect to both parties, I've got nothing against anyone.)
Now if you wanted to date a black girl you must be real toughie then, strong-willed guys for equally strong –willed women. Historically, ebony women had lots of struggles, husbands being beaten to death right at their very eyes, been separated from their children and became slaves all their lives not until there was this so called BLACK LIBERATION. No wonder black women had evolved to strong and determined beings. Want to make a black girl smile? Simply appreciate her but be watchful on what you say. There are some things you should never say to a black girl. <
Now, never say "I was raised by black people," (If your nanny or butler was black when you were growing up, you do not pass as an honorary black person.) I find black girls' do so cool but ooooppppssssss it's a no-no to ask to touch her hair. Don't ask anything about the hair, or whether you can touch it. Such an exchange will never end well." Black women are so much cooler with sex than white women, "if you think that implying black women are losers than white women are gonna get you some, you're wrong dude! Never leave her this comment "It's not like you're the first black woman I've dated would never impress her, it comes off as creepy fetishizing .Lastly, NEVER EVER SAY "You are the black version of Audrey Hepburn (it would not please her if you say she is the black version of a certain white woman.) Commit these mistakes and you're doomed not to have any black girl for a date or could never ask her out again.
Regardless of the color, girls are just too hard to please. So there, good luck on your next or first date with a black girl.
Fellas, can I all give you a question? During my university days I've seen black girls and guys kicked it and most of the time the girls end up to like the guy and all of a sudden he will just call it quits. Sad scene is these black guys easily hang on to white chicks. What's with white chicks that these guys go head-over-heels with? Why a black girl is easily passed over for a white gal?
Well because these guys think that black girls are just too strong-willed for them, not easy to handle. I can't remember where exactly I read these but it just left a mark on me and never had forgotten them.
If you want a queen, be with a black girl,
If you want a dumb ass who hangs on my every word, get a white girl,
If I want a challenge, go for an African girl
A chick to do what you say, when you say, then it's a white girl.
(With all due respect to both parties, I've got nothing against anyone.)
Now if you wanted to date a black girl you must be real toughie then, strong-willed guys for equally strong –willed women. Historically, ebony women had lots of struggles, husbands being beaten to death right at their very eyes, been separated from their children and became slaves all their lives not until there was this so called BLACK LIBERATION. No wonder black women had evolved to strong and determined beings. Want to make a black girl smile? Simply appreciate her but be watchful on what you say. There are some things you should never say to a black girl. <
Now, never say "I was raised by black people," (If your nanny or butler was black when you were growing up, you do not pass as an honorary black person.) I find black girls' do so cool but ooooppppssssss it's a no-no to ask to touch her hair. Don't ask anything about the hair, or whether you can touch it. Such an exchange will never end well." Black women are so much cooler with sex than white women, "if you think that implying black women are losers than white women are gonna get you some, you're wrong dude! Never leave her this comment "It's not like you're the first black woman I've dated would never impress her, it comes off as creepy fetishizing .Lastly, NEVER EVER SAY "You are the black version of Audrey Hepburn (it would not please her if you say she is the black version of a certain white woman.) Commit these mistakes and you're doomed not to have any black girl for a date or could never ask her out again.
Regardless of the color, girls are just too hard to please. So there, good luck on your next or first date with a black girl.
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